
This is the recap
DAY 2
Are you excited for day 2? Here's your first written note:
You're hella worthy.
That's it. I was you to believe this and embody it today. Whatever is it, you're worthy of it. Whatever you tell your friends they are worthy of, you are too.
You are worthy of love and be loved like you are a freaking divine creature (because you are).
You are worthy of making so much money that you don't know what to do with it.
You are worthy of resting and taking care of yourself.
Sit in that vibe of "I'm worthy AF" until you believe it and feel it.
The magic, the miracles, the big scary goals that you've been dreaming of, they are waiting to come into your reality, they are just waiting for you to go from "I want it" to "I'm worthy of it".
Get out there gorgeous human being and sparkle like the worthy being that you are!
See you tomorrow!
Lola
DAY 4
Today, I want you to focus on uncovering the bullshit that society has put on you. All those feelings that you should act, be BREATH a certain way to make it work is just a straight-up lie.
Ask yourself: Who is it serving for me to act this way? Chances are, the answer is "someone else".
It is the most important job you have to break free from these concepts that are keeping you small. You are so much more than that.
Think of it this way: The more bullshit you uncover, the more you can shed and make space for your true self. And the more you shine as your truest self, the more you are inspiring others to do the same. Really you are doing this for the greater good!
You've got this and I'll see you tomorrow for your next voice message!
Lola, xx
DAY 6
Happy Day 6! Today, let's talk about confirmation.
Whatever you desire or try to create for yourself, if it's life-changing, the Universe is going to way for confirmation for your order. That looks like :
- physically emotionally or mentally making space in your life for what you are attracting.
- Imagining and visualizing your life with your order in it.
- Taking steps to welcome your order.
- Stepping back from the hustle and let the ease flow.
The Universe has your back. So today visualize and make space for what you desire. Without this, you can want it and ask for it, you won't be able to receive it and welcome it when it comes.
Get ready for the magic and I'll talk to you tomorrow!
Lola, xx
DAY 8
Gorgeous,
You fucking got this. I don't know who told you otherwise (even if it was yourself) but that bitch was lying. You have everything within you to succeed.
I'll let you in on a little secret: The Univers only places desires in your heart that you are meant to receive. Meaning all those big goals and dreams are actually guidance.
You have to find a way to trust and believe in yourself so that the Univers can support you.
Get out there and show them what you are made of.
Stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 10
You'll only be ready when you decide you are.
The right moment only exists when you decide it's now.
I didn't have a clue what to write in today's email but then I let the Universe whisper at my ear and I hear it clearly "You have to remind them that the "right moment" is when they say so." That's my message to you today. When you desire to do something but you don't feel ready I want you to stop and ask yourself:
- Am I truly not ready or have I been told that I need to be in a specific state to officially be ready?
- Am I not ready or am I afraid?
- Am I not ready or the thought of struggling and maybe failing is too hard to start?
You have to dig deeper and uncover why you don't feelready. Might be legit but it might also be your brain playing tricks on you.
Get out there and decide that you're ready.
I'm so proud of you,
Lola, xx
DAY 12
I have a question for you today:
What makes you truly happy in your daily life?
Is there a fancy cream that you only put on when it's an "occasion"?
Is there a special flavour that you put in your coffee for special moments?
Is there a kind of music you plan when you want to have fun and dance?
I want you to make every day a special occasion. To find small things that make you truly happy and stop and stare. "Stare" at that moment, that feeling of truly feeling good. It can be after that first sip of coffee, after a particularly good winged eyeliner, whatever makes you feel good.
Take the time to enjoy and bask in that happiness, especially at the beginning of the day. There is no better way to get the day started on the right foot.
You are in charge of being happy of feeling joy. It's time you treat yourself like you were dating yourself and you are in the first couple of weeks and you're trying to impress yourself HARD! That's the energy I want for you.
So, what will make you happy today?
I'm so proud of you for doing this! And please share your happy moments with me on Instagram or TikyToky!
Lola, xx
DAY 14
Do you even ask yourself "Why are we doing this this way?". About anything. Why do we feel pressured to work 40hrs workweeks? Why do we glorify the hustle? Why?
I want you to start questioning more. You are in control of your world and if you don't question what you allow in, other people will do it for you and you might not like the outcome.
So start questioning everything. This is how we advance as a community and how to create great things.
Keep thinking, keep pushing and stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 16
I thought I'd introduce you to one of my fav analogies that helped me and my clients so much: The Brain Gremlins
I'll start by saying you cannot control what thoughts come into your mind. Your brain is like a though making machine that is 100% untamed. Yes, you can teach it what sort of thoughts you prefer but there are always gonna be wild cards. So if you ever felt guilty because after doing mindset work you "still" have negative thought patterns, we all do love.
So the Gremlins. They are the bad thoughts, the negative ones. The ones that make you doubt your entire existence, the ones that make you believe that you are a no-good imposter and any minute now someone is gonna uncover you and humiliate you. The Gremlins ALWAYS lie. Always. But like I was saying, you can't prevent them from coming in.
But you can prevent them from staying. That's where your power is. Decide if you feed the Gremlins or not. And by feeding I mean giving them attention and importance. When you don't feed them, they go away
Sure, another one can come in but the less you feed them, the less they come and the shorter they stay.
Stop feeding your Gremlins, love.
So proud of you and yes this was a longer email but I needed to share this one.
Have a wonderful day,
Lola, xx
DAY 18
This is day 18 already!
How did it go this quickly? We have 10 more days to go and they are gonna be extra spicy and fire, just a little FYI.
And if these last days feel extra difficult to keep up with (or even the last couple of days have been) know that it's normal. Your brain knows that keeping up with this is potentially gonna change your life and that's scary AF.
Your brain is always trying to keep you alive and the best way it knows how to do that is by keeping you in the "know" aka things that you've already been through that you know what the outcome will be. Anything that steps outside of the is deemed as "dangerous" because your brain can't know for sure what will happen.
But magic happens outside these lines, the crazy amazing dreams that you have live in the world that you haven't experienced yet. Therefore to make these dreams a reality you need to start taking actions that you don't know the outcome. And with a neurospicy brain, it's harder.
So be brave, put the extra effort to see this through. To help you out I'll be including surprises sprinkled in the last 10 days. I won't tell you where, you'll just have keep up with it. You've got this. Knowing that your neurospicy brain can play against you take power away from it and gives it back to you. Use that power to see this through. Use this as proof that it can be done when you have the right system in place.
It's always about the support.
So proud of you for making it this far,
Stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 20
Here is a new magic thing I want you to think about:
"You see things that they CAN'T". Not that they won't see it, they just can't. Neurodivergent brains work differently which means you get to have a different vision of the world and that is a superpower.
I know sometimes it feels like you are playing with one hand tied behind your back but I'm here to tell you that you are just picking tools that the rest of them don't have access to.
Your vision and your way of seeing things are a gift to the world. Use it and share it.
I'm so proud of you,
Lola, xx
DAY 22
Imma go straight to the point, what's your relationship with your dreams?
I'm talking real AF relationship. How do you treat them? How do you talk about them? Do you talk about them? Do you even believe they are real?
The Universe (and your brain) doesn't know what's real and what are the stories that you are telling your brain. It's your job to match up the stories to the reality you crave so your brain and the Universe can work together to make it real AF.
So this is what I want for you, I want you to see your dreams as a friend. I want you to feel as if they are your best friends that always have your back. Can you do that?
Because magic happens when you believe your dreams are so real that they are already on their way/happening.
Be BFF with those dreams and stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 24
Imma blow your mind right meow, consistency is nothing.
For real, I just had a call with some amazing humans in Weirdo Academy and one of the asked me about consistency and what I felt about it. I told her straight (because that's what I do) that I think it's trash and it's a neurotypical scheme to make us feel like were inadequate.
So here's what I want you to do instead, ask yourself "why". "Why is the internet trying to make me believe that I need to be consistent?"
The best thing you can do is create and be from a place of excitement and joy. Inspiration beats consistency any day of the week.
So instead of being consistent, be inspired and be you.
You've got this and I'm so proud of you.
Stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 26
You're worthy because you are breathing and you know what else, you get to be hella proud of that and every little thing you've accomplished.
You're trying really hard to see tomorrow, and you get to be proud of yourself.
You're giving all the energy you have, and for that, you get to be proud.
You're trying to learn and be better, and for that, you get to be proud.
Think about where you were 5 years ago and where you are today, all the things you've gained and all the things you were able to free yourself from, for that, you get to be HELLA proud.
Stay in that vibe for as long as you can.
And stay weird,
Lola, xx
DAY 28
this is the last day so I'll be real AF.
Life and especially CHANGING your life situation is hard AF. Whoever said change was easy was either a liar or never experienced it. Change is the hardest thing you can do in your life but also the most rewarding.
This is why I want it for you and why I'll always gonna be there for you when you are working towards change.
Just like anything else, that drive to be the best version of yourself was placed in your heart for a reason. You are meant to accomplish beautiful things and this is just The Universe guiding you.
I'm so proud of you and you get to be proud of yourself for that.
You're an amazing fucking human being.
You are always doing your best at every point in time.
You are already the best version of yourself at every point in time because you are giving all that's available to you.
This is the end of the Hype Club but not the end of you growing and becoming more and more of yourself. And I'll be right here if you need me.
I know I told you yesterday but just in case you need a little reminder, slide in my DMs if you need support (@theweirdocoach on IG). I'm there for you. Keep pushing yourself and questioning what serves you and what doesn't.
You've got this.
Stay weird,
Lola, xx